Bill Fitzhenry's Thoughts For Today…
Something Unsaid
Proverbs 25:7c-10 EVS
7…What your eyes have seen
8 do not hastily bring into court,
for what will you do in the end,
when your neighbor puts you to shame?
9 Argue your case with your neighbor himself,
and do not reveal another’s secret,
10 lest he who hears you bring shame upon you,
and your ill repute have no end
The Law of God demands man’s attention and lends itself to his understanding when he desires to understand it. There are many teachers of the Law, some to the believer’s advantage and more to his disadvantage. In this corner there is no better, and few even approaching the excellence of, the Westminster Confession Larger Catechism’s exposition of the Law of God.
The Larger Catechism question 144 asks “What are the duties required in the Ninth Commandment.” ("You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor”). Please give your utmost attention to how this answer begins.
A. “The duties required in the ninth command are, the preserving and promoting truth between man and man, and the good name of our neighbor, as well as our own”.
The responsibility for our neighbor in our conversation lies second only to truth itself. But how seldom is this remembered or is it even known.
The passage for today speaks directly to one’s responsibility to his neighbor with the truth. The issue is the “good name” of both the neighbor and the truth speaker.
1. There is truth that is not to be used to accuse a neighbor. Vs 7c-8A. Truth in and of itself does not demand disclosure. It does not always demand reporting and it may be improvable. Truth that is improvable is to be left unstated.
The Levitical legal system demands two witnesses. The truth is unproven when it is private and lacking the second witness. Then it becomes libel to the shame of the speaker.
2. Vs 9 There are private matters that are to remain private. The Scriptures furnish an expectation of privacy. The promotion of a neighbor’s “good name” overrides the right to tell all.
A good way to understand this responsibility is to think of what good order in society demands, you must report a murder, but some reporting gives a reward, such as income tax evasion. If it requires a reward it is most likely private.
3. Vs 10 In this verse the failure of promoting the good name of your neighbor is the subject. To fail to heed the privacy given to one’s neighbor and to publish the truth of a single witness has two results.
A. The intent is recognized as slander bringing shame on yourself Vs 10a.
B. Thus you bring upon yourself a well deserved judgment of an enduring reputation of tale bearing.
In Paul’s catalogue of sins in Romans 1:29-31 the kind of sin in Proverbs 25:8-10 is named seven times. A close look at the last five commandments will convince the student that most flagrantly disobeyed in the most malevolent way is the ninth commandment. And the failure to promote our neighbors’ reputation is of very little or no concern to a far too large majority.